大家都说初入职场是一个小社会发展，有时工作中或者朋友间，免不了有些人会问不尊的难题，你需要怎么回答呢？
1 . How much money do you make?
你赚要多少钱？
This question about money is quite common, even though it is considered rude and nosy to ask. You have several options on how to deal with it. Your answer will be different if the person asking is a coworker than if the question is coming from someone sitting next to you on an airplane.
虽然这个问题问的很粗鲁无礼、欺软怕硬，可是这类有关钱的难题是很普遍的。有关怎么处理，给你很多种多样念头。假如提问题的就是你的朋友，或是假如难题是乘飞机时你的邻座问的，那麼你的答案很有可能就不一样。
The simplest answer is to say that you never discuss money with anyone but your spouse. Most people will accept that, but others who are extremely rude might press or insult you to get their answer. Don’t fall for it.
非常简单的回应是：除开和直系亲属外，你不一样所有人讨论钱的难题。绝大多数人都是会接纳这一回应，可是这些极其粗鲁无礼的人很有可能会施加压力或是污辱得罪已获得她们希望的回答。不必吃那套上当受骗。
Another thing you might do is answer with a quippy, “Enough to pay my bills and have a little fun,” or “Not nearly enough to do everything I’d like to do.”
此外，你要能够那样恰当的回应，“充足付款我的账单及其找点开心”，或是“也不是彻底可以做一切想做的事”。
2 . Are you still single?
你要单身吗？
Many single men and women in their late twenties and early thirties have heard this one. It’s a question generally asked by a well-meaning relative or close friend who wants you to be happy. However, hearing it over and over will make you anything but happy.
许多二十八九，三十出头的未婚男女都被问过这个问题。要想用一生去爱你高兴的善心亲朋好友或亲密无间的盆友一般会问这个问题。殊不知，不断听见这个问题会令人不高兴。
If you are still single, tell the person that you haven’t found someone you want to spend your life with, but if you ever do, you’ll get the word out to everyone who needs to know.
假如你依然单身，告知她们，你要沒有寻找要想与之欢度一生的人，可是假如你找到，你能告知全部想要知道的每一个人。
3 . Have you gained (or lost) weight?
你发胖（减肥瘦身）了没有？
If the person comes out and asks, your weight change is probably obvious, and chances are you have put on (or lost) a few pounds or more. When someone comes right out and makes this terribly insensitive remark, smile and say, “I’m feeling wonderful. How about you?” That should get the point across that you don’t want to honor the rude question with an answer.
假如有些人出去问这个问题，那麼你的休重转变很有可能很显著，很有可能状况是：你很有可能胖了（或者瘦了）几磅或大量。假如有些人立即问这一十分比较敏感的难题，那麼笑容着说，“我感觉非常好。你嘞？”这一回应会说明关键，你可以不容易给这类冒昧不尊的难题回击一个回答。
4 . How much did you pay for that house?
你花多少钱买的哪个房屋？
Here is another money question that doesn’t deserve an answer. However, being the polite person you are, you might answer with something like, “I paid the going market value for houses in the neighborhood. It’s a very comfortable house that felt like home the minute I walked in the door.” Quickly change the subject to let the person know you are finished discussing house prices. If he or she still wants to know, the sale of a house is public record, and it can be found later on the Internet.
它是此外一个不值回应的有关钱的难题。殊不知，做为一个有礼貌的人，你很有可能像那样回应，“我还在周边以市价买的这一房屋。这一房屋十分舒适，我一进去就觉得像在家里一样。”迅速的转换话题讨论让这个人了解你终止探讨这一房屋的价钱。假如他或她依然要想了解要多少钱买的，那麼告知她们房屋的售卖是有公共性纪录的，而且能够在网络上查到。
5 . When is your baby due?
产期是什么时候？
If you are pregnant, chances are you have announced it to everyone you want to know. Yet, there are times when women gain weight or wear certain outfits that make them appear pregnant when they haven’t gained an ounce.
如果你是个孕妈妈，很有可能的状况是，你早已告知过全部你要想告知的人了。殊不知，会出现这类状况：当一些女性胖了或者他们休重一盎司也没提升而仅仅穿了特殊的衣服裤子让她们看上去像孕期。
You have several ways to respond to this rude question. You can say you’re not pregnant and let the person (considering, of course, the person is decent enough to be embarrassed), or you may give a date a few years away. When the rude person appears confused, say, “Bill and I thought we’d wait a couple of years before starting a family.” And then don’t wear that outfit again.
给你好多个方式 能够回应这种不尊的难题。你能说你没有孕期，随后让那人觉得难堪和尴尬（自然，充分考虑这个人很爱面子会觉得尴尬），或是你告知她们在未来两年后的某一日子。当这一粗鲁无礼的人好像很疑惑时，说，“Bill和我觉得应当再等两年再建立家中。”随后不要穿这件衣服裤子了。
6 . When do you plan to start a family?
你准备何时成家立业？
Many newlyweds get asked this question. If a close friend or relative asks, you might want to give an honest answer. However, if the questioner is just a nosy busybody, say that the minute you said your wedding vows, you considered yourselves a family.
很多年轻夫妻会被问起这个问题。如果是一个亲密无间的盆友或者亲朋好友那么问，你很有可能会老实巴交的回应。殊不知，假如仅仅一个欺软怕硬的人问的，便说你一直在结婚誓言里边早已说过去了，大家早已是一家人了。
7 . More rude questions
大量粗暴的难题
There is such an abundance of rude questions – and people who ask them – that you could spend all day thinking of answers and quips. Instead of wasting your valuable time, have a few standard replies that work in a variety of situations.
这里有许多粗暴的难题-大家会问起的-你很有可能得花一整天左思右想回答。你能学习培训一些在很多场所都可用的正确答案，而不是消耗珍贵的時间去想。
Here are some examples of how to respond:
下边是一些怎样回应的事例：
”Why would you ask such a rude question?”
“你为何要问那么冒昧不尊的难题？”
”I have a policy not to discuss that topic with anyone it doesn’t concern.”
我有一个标准便是不跟一切与之不相干的人讨论这一话题讨论。
Pause, smile, and say, “Did you really just ask me that?”
稍微间断，笑容，随后说，“你确实仅仅问一问我吗？”
”I’m not even touching that topic. Let’s talk about something else.“
“我乃至也没有想过哪个话题讨论。大家讲些其他吧。”
”Do you realize how rude that question is?”
“你了解哪个难题有多么的没礼貌吗？”
Take a step back to gain some personal space and say, ”I’m not going to answer that question.”
逃避一步以得到些个人空间，随后说，“我不会准备回应哪个难题。”
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