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JUST
只是,仅仅
'This word minimizes the power of your statements and can make you seem defensive or even apologetic,' writes Melody.
梅洛迪写到:“这个词减弱了你描述的能量,会让你看起来在自身答辩乃至含有歉疚。”
'It can often be a defense mechanism subconsciously used to shield ourselves from the rejection of hearing “no" or a way to avoid thediscomfort of feeling like we’re asking for too much.'
“它通常意味着了一种自我防御机制,大家不由自主用它用于保护自己在听见回绝时不受伤。或是把它作为一种清除不适的方式,以防觉得自身规定过多。”
I'M NO EXPERT, BUT
我不会内行,可是
Avoid this phrase, even if you're saying it to try not to sound pushy. Suggesting you may be wrong before even giving your opinion can make your statement seem less credible.
不必应用这类描述,即便 你那么说成为了更好地听起来不那麼强势。在发布见解前暗示着自身可能是错的,这会消弱你见解的真实度。
WHAT IF WE TRIED…?
如果我们尝试……?
State your ideas in a straightforward manner and you're more likely to be taken seriously, advises Melody.
梅洛迪提议应用直接了当的方法阐述见解,那样你才更有可能被认真完成。
'Masking your opinions as questions invites rebuttal and can lead to you feel criticised.'
“用疑问句掩藏见解会引来辩驳,还给你感觉遭受了指责。”
When posing an idea, don't 'poll'. Make it clear that you think your ideas are valid and worth everyone's time to listen to.
明确提出见解时,别提心吊胆揭穿他人的观点。理应清晰地表明你认为自身的见解合情合理,非常值得每一个人用心聆听。
I CAN'T
我不能
'When you say “I can’t,” you’re sacrificing ownership and control over you actions,' writes Melody. Make sure not to use 'I can't' when you really mean 'I won't', an active phrase.
梅洛迪写到:“如果你说‘我不能’的情况下,放弃的是自身行動的管理权和决策权。”* 你要表述“我不想(去做)”的情况下不必应用“我不能”。前面一种是一种自觉性的表述。
THAT IS LIKE, SO GREAT!
那好像,棒极了!
Don't distract your audience from what you're saying by using words such as 'like' and raising your voice at the end of your sentence.
不必应用“仿佛”这类的词,也不要在语句末尾提高音量。这会使闻者的专注力从你所讲的內容上迁移。
According to Melody, this can 'indicate uncertainty, make you appear hesitant, and create a lack of trust among your audience'.
据梅洛迪常说,这类描述会“显示信息可变性,给你看起来迟疑,观众会对你欠缺信任感”。
EXCLAMATION MARKS OR EMJOIS
惊叹号或符号表情
Using exclamation marks or emojis can suggest you feel insecure in your message.
应用惊叹号或符号表情很有可能在信息中暗示着:你一直在觉得躁动不安。
AM I MAKING SENSE?
我将含意说明白了吗?
Don't open up the possibility to your audience to question whether you are.
别给你的观众还有机会提出质疑你到底说没说搞清楚。
Even if you think you're encouraging interaction, it 'speaks to an underlying belief you may have that you’re an impostor, and unqualified to be speaking on the matter', writes Melody.
梅洛迪写到,即便 你认为自身是在激励互动交流,“这句话偏向了你很有可能拥有的潜在性见解——自身是个山寨货,不够格在这件事情上表达意见。”
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